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Bridget's avatar

Judith: reinvents pre-Cana but with figuratively all the quiet parts out loud

Tim: "you've been THINKING of me!"

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The Casual Writer's avatar

💯

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Sara Dietz's avatar

Can we just adopt Judith’s pre-Cana across the board? Because tbh I feel like it’d be more effective 😂😅

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Bridget Riley's avatar

The most memorable part of ours were the videos of the 5 love languages guy talking about the “love tank”. 😂

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Sara Dietz's avatar

Oh goodness hahahaha 😂 ours had a meter-less poem called “it is probably lovemaking” that stands out as the high point 😅 in that my best friend and I reference it monthly, six or seven years after we’ve both been married 😂

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Bridget Riley's avatar

That’s amazing. 🤣 I made the mistake of trying to find the poem on Google just now, and it did not go well. 😅

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Sara Dietz's avatar

AHHHAHAHAHAHA yeah I would imagine not 😂🫠 let me see if I can pull out the book and find it. It’s a big cringe 😂😂

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Kelly Garrison's avatar

One reason I adore Judith and Constance is that they remind me so much of my lifelong bff and me. I'm more of the Constance type, and she's Judith (although this was much more true when we were kids and teens - as adults, we've both evened out a bit). She's now a successful surgeon in an extremely difficult, esoteric, and male-dominated speciality - I could see Judith thriving in this area as well, in another life. Meanwhile, I'm a lawyer-turned-stay at home Mom who is updating her on my favorite classics and my niche pop culture obsessions.

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Bridget Riley's avatar

Oh, I love this!!

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Leanne Shawler's avatar

Ah! Judith brought her very own Engaged Encounter!! Love it, also, how does Judith know how anaphylactic shock feels? Have I forgotten an allergy?

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Bridget Riley's avatar

No allergies specifically mentioned (yet), but Judith may have a teensy hypochondriac streak. 😂

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Jean Marie Bauhaus's avatar

I'm not analytical like she is -- I'm more about the vibes -- but otherwise I relate so much to Judith. I'm so grateful to have found my Tim, who is more delighted than annoyed by my quirks.

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S. L. Linton's avatar

I love that Judith made a questionnaire! And that Tim saw it as a good and not as a negative "weird."

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Kelly Garrison's avatar

I feel like Tim is thinking this is Judith's equivalent of reading out all of his texts to girlfriends to analyze what he's thinking lollll

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Michael S. Atkinson's avatar

We all agree we don't like Herb, yeah?

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Sara Dietz's avatar

Very don’t like him

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Jim J Wilsky's avatar

Great episode Bridget. A good break, a closer dive into their personalities, the relationship and how they each approach things. I'll only say this, Tim has a great deal of patience, haha. - Jim

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Sara Dietz's avatar

JUDITH 😍😍😂😂😍😍

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Liz Zimmers's avatar

Oh, Judith! “…excitement, panic, or anaphylactic shock…” Just brilliant! Can’t wait until they fill out that questionnaire.

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Stephanie Loomis's avatar

Her social awkwardness is adorable

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The Casual Writer's avatar

I cannot with Judith, but also I love her, lol. We love to see it!!

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